Forgiveness Make You Happy

Saw this sign when i was in the Big Buddha Temple during Phuket trip.

"Forgiveness make you happy"

How true issit? Well, i won't deny that forgiveness do make us feel better, but not really happy... Some hurtful things which others did, can't be forgive... and the hurts will form as a wound which will forever hurt and harm u, u will never gonna forget abt it...

But forgiveness is a good thing that we should do and practice. But to you out-there, i knw u didnt read my blog, but i wanna tell u... i'm not gonna forgive u for wat u did... of coz, i'm not gonna make any revenge for it... i'll let the God to punish u when the right time come :) PEACE

8 who am I - questions:

  Bravebear

October 26, 2009 at 5:55 PM

Forgive is always easy but to forget is hard. I do believe that by forgiving someone makes me happier.

If I ever get pissed off I would keep thinking about the incident and badmouth the person. But it only pisses me off more and its so not worth it. I find that if i forgive the person I could concentrate on doing other stuff to make me happy. Yay to me =)

Gemini are very forgiveful. Agree? hehe...

  Gratitude

October 26, 2009 at 6:23 PM

I agree with you that forgiveness doesn't make us happy, but rather, forgiveness removes the hatred and anger we have. It's hard to accomplish, but it's good to try. Forgive but do not forget is what i try to practice. To not forget is to learn from the bitter lesson and possibly avoid making the same mistake again.
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  William

October 26, 2009 at 9:10 PM

I did not know it was a sin not to read your blog!!!

  erictbk

October 26, 2009 at 9:10 PM

Yea, forgiving is a good deed... XD

  [SK]

October 26, 2009 at 10:33 PM

to forgive is one thing, to forgive and forget about the hurt is another better thing to do.. i'm sure happiness is how generous you can be..

  类私理 Lesly

October 27, 2009 at 12:41 AM

Haha... I also think same as what your thought... BTW, time might change anything where i might not so angry instead of saying forgive someone and try to forgive them... might!!! haha!!

  TZ

October 27, 2009 at 9:56 AM

Usually i'm able to forgive and forgave anyone... but there's one person that until today i still couldn't forgiven... i have trying so many times but failed... Anyway, just don't feel like talking about it anymore :p

Try to forgive the person and move on... you will be more happier :p

  vialentino

October 27, 2009 at 10:35 AM

forgiveness make u happy...kind of agree but it depends on wat crime/mistake the party has been made....