The cousin is coming over...


My house is near to a university and so happens that one of my cousin bro is going to study at here. We are not close at all because of the age gap and basically we don't talk to each other at all. He's in the hometown and he asked my parents whether he can rent one of my room since it is walking distance to the uni; and without even asking for my permission, my parents agreed on behalf and only casually "inform" me... I was like, "WTF?"

Me: Hey, why nobody ask me about it first before agreeing on this?
Mom: Your cousin, just tolong him la~
Me: No, i'm used to stay alone...
Mom: What no?!? We already promised...
Me: You guys should ask me first....
Mom: He can help to take care of your house when you go travel and someone to feed your dogs
Me: But I...
Mom: And beside, aren't you feel boring everyday alone and not talk to anyone at all?

I know no matter what I said, I can never win this war... So now I'm thinking where to keep my things when my cousin move in... I'm very particular of people looking through my things without my permission; and I will never ever know what he will be doing for the whole afternoon when he came back from class and I'm working in my office... And the most inconvenient is... I cannot be naked anymore when I'm alone... FUCK !

3 who am I - questions:

  SamL

September 26, 2016 at 10:34 AM

Wth i feel so bad for you.. I think generally asian parents are like this.. They decide on behalf of their children without consulting them because "I am your parent i dont need your permission / opinion"

 

September 27, 2016 at 1:25 AM

They are saying its for my own good wo... haiz

  William

October 24, 2016 at 1:43 PM

Loss of privacy without your consent. That sucks.