The cousin is coming over...

My house is near to a university and so happens that one of my cousin bro is going to study at here. We are not close at all because of the age gap and basically we don't talk to each other at all. He's in the hometown and he asked my parents whether he can rent one of my room since it is walking distance to the uni; and without even asking for my permission, my parents agreed on behalf and only casually "inform" me... I was like, "WTF?"

Me: Hey, why nobody ask me about it first before agreeing on this?

Mom: Your cousin, just tolong him la~

Me: No, i'm used to stay alone...

Mom: What no?!? We already promised...

Me: You guys should ask me first....

Mom: He can help to take care of your house when you go travel and someone to feed your dogs

Me: But I...

Mom: And beside, aren't you feel boring everyday alone and not talk to anyone at all?

I know no matter what I said, I can never win this war... So now I'm thinking where to keep my things when my cousin move in... I'm very particular of people looking through my things without my permission; and I will never ever know what he will be doing for the whole afternoon when he came back from class and I'm working in my office... And the most inconvenient is... I cannot be naked anymore when I'm alone... FUCK !

Colleague or Friend ?

Lately there are a few new staffs joined my department and I am quite close with one of them (let's call him EXM). Beside having the same birth-date (different year), basically both of us have a lot of things in common such as hobbies, foods, humors... 

Except for one thing... I'm more easier to have colleagues becoming my friends but he's not. For him, colleagues will only be colleagues and he doesn't really trust too much people. He won't hang out with colleagues after working hour or anywhere out from the office areas... But i'm happy that he invited me for a weekend hang out with him and his gf and some other people too... Think i'm becoming his friend now lol~

Well, I know you won't be reading my blog here anyway... but just to let you know EXM, its good to protect yourself coz i know you got betrayed by your friends before. But over-protected will set yourself alone in an island when come to work. Just be wise and everything will be fine :)