Making friends is not an issue for me, i can chit-chat and make fun with different group of people. But whether i wanna consider them as my close friends, that's another story... U know la~ close friends are those who really really u can talk to, those who has the same ideas & thoughts, those who can share and help you whenever u need them to~
The situation come to the same in my company. I treat everyone as colleagues, but i believe colleagues can become friends :) I have friends in the marketing side, HR side, finance side & auditor side... But in my own dept, they are jst my colleagues. Really, i will never ever consider them as my friends~
They are those who plays the office politics, they are nasty, they are evil. Back-stabbing and making rumors are what they are good at. When i first joined this dept, they waved to me and indirectly asked me to join their gang. Though they are the "vip" in company, but i rejected. I never attend any of their invitations, so they accept the fact and started to treat me in different way~ I mean, come on~ i still treat them like how i treat other colleagues, but they jst dont seems to accept it~ ok fine. Now i have to go~ Coz no matter how hard u work, how commit u are~ the top management will never know, coz when the report goes up from the company hierarchy, they tend to steal your spotlight and outcast you.
Well, i learnt my lesson. Hopefully i will do better in the new company. Since i tender, i would need to serve 3 months notice before i ciao~ and my bitchy boss treat me like a cow now~ dump all the things for me to do... i'm fine with it... jst have to bear with it~
Back to work !!!
The situation come to the same in my company. I treat everyone as colleagues, but i believe colleagues can become friends :) I have friends in the marketing side, HR side, finance side & auditor side... But in my own dept, they are jst my colleagues. Really, i will never ever consider them as my friends~
They are those who plays the office politics, they are nasty, they are evil. Back-stabbing and making rumors are what they are good at. When i first joined this dept, they waved to me and indirectly asked me to join their gang. Though they are the "vip" in company, but i rejected. I never attend any of their invitations, so they accept the fact and started to treat me in different way~ I mean, come on~ i still treat them like how i treat other colleagues, but they jst dont seems to accept it~ ok fine. Now i have to go~ Coz no matter how hard u work, how commit u are~ the top management will never know, coz when the report goes up from the company hierarchy, they tend to steal your spotlight and outcast you.
Well, i learnt my lesson. Hopefully i will do better in the new company. Since i tender, i would need to serve 3 months notice before i ciao~ and my bitchy boss treat me like a cow now~ dump all the things for me to do... i'm fine with it... jst have to bear with it~
Back to work !!!
18 who am I - questions:
March 25, 2010 at 10:42 AM
well, care nothing since you've already tendered resignation and going to leave soon.. look forward to your new job, then you'll not be bothered by how people treat you here..
March 25, 2010 at 11:45 AM
Hang on there!
March 25, 2010 at 12:15 PM
Just look forward to the new environment and let's not sweat over it... but typically I have the same idea with u too, colleagues can be friends but not close friends...
March 25, 2010 at 12:22 PM
Yup!!! you are right. Don't get so close with colleague that same department with you because most of them are backstabber. Other departments just for gossiping....hehe..XD
March 25, 2010 at 12:39 PM
I wanna comment seriously but the eggs just keep me smiling!
March 25, 2010 at 3:09 PM
good luck 4 u yah..
March 25, 2010 at 5:00 PM
Agreed with you. Thanks god I got some good colleagues here. Since you resigned di so just don't care them too much la. Just look forward for your new job and be a good survivor for 2 plus more months la. Cheers~!
March 25, 2010 at 6:13 PM
so cute the eggs kekekeee...
well i hate politics too, and im not good at it.
anyway wish ur new job/environment to b more delighting and enjoyable :)
March 25, 2010 at 8:02 PM
well not much of politics at my place (yet, or I haven't seen/aware of them).. but I just hate how people perceive things here..
endure... 3 months flash very quickly
March 25, 2010 at 9:36 PM
All of this back stabbing thing is already manifesting in my uni life. Sad... Not only colleagues but also coursemates...
March 25, 2010 at 11:50 PM
No wonder they say the workplace is like a battlefield, haha
March 26, 2010 at 12:02 AM
Hugs
March 26, 2010 at 8:50 AM
SK, i will~ but very sien lo when u see their face~
Dove, hanging !
pikey, definitely... and cant even tell them personal things~
March 26, 2010 at 8:51 AM
nicky, haha~ how would u knw? u didnt even work yet
savante, glad tat u enjoy
william, die die also have to tahan la~
March 26, 2010 at 8:52 AM
nons, thanx :) i need that badly
lesly, haiz ~ u enjoy la~ now only see u here
happy, yeap~ i'm not into politics stuff as well~
March 26, 2010 at 8:54 AM
roti, cepat cepat flash flash flash
bravebear, i knw... but coursemate's technique is not that powerful yet ma~
orange, yep~ full of weapon
ichi, thanx :)
March 26, 2010 at 10:22 PM
true i will remember this when i start working
in the management section
and lol
slap my customers face?
no way hahaha
March 29, 2010 at 8:55 AM
envogue, haha~ better learn quick :)
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